Joan Remson Etersque

Nov 27, 1934 — Jul 10, 2026

Deer Park, New York

Joan Remson Etersque, born on November 27, 1934, left this world on July 10, 2026. Her passing marks the end of a remarkable life characterized by love, devotion, and vibrant warmth—traits that made her beloved by all who knew her.

Joan’s story is woven with the brilliance of simple joys and lifelong commitments. After earning her high school diploma, she spent her career serving as a crossing guard for the Suffolk County Police Department. 

At the heart of Joan’s life was her family. She was a devoted wife to her late husband, Anthony Etersque (December 1973), and together they created a loving home filled with laughter, tradition, and unbreakable bonds. Her legacy lives on in her children: Joananne and her husband Jimmy LoRusso, Anthony and his wife Suzanne Etersque, Michael and his wife Joan Etersque, and Sue and her husband Mike Prescia. Her family grew and blossomed, a direct testament to the unconditional love Joan poured out daily.

Her influence echoes in her nine grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren and one on the way, with the joyful anticipation of another great-grandchild soon to join the family. Nothing brought Joan greater happiness than being surrounded by her loved ones, her presence at family gatherings ensuring that laughter, stories, and wisdom were always in abundance.

Joan’s personality shone in every interaction—she was known for her kindness and caring nature, always putting family above all else. Her zest for life was infectious. She loved going out and reveling in the company of friends, cherishing good times and lively conversations. Poker nights brought out her competitive side and delighted those around her. She relished giving orders, often with a mischievous twinkle in her eye that was impossible to resist. Equally, her deep love of Jesus Christ guided her, infusing her days with faith, hope, and gratitude.

Family and friends will have the opportunity to honor Joan’s memory and say their farewells during visitation on July 24, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Mangano Family Funeral Home, 1701 Deer Pk Ave, Deer Park, NY 11729. A funeral mass will be held at Saints Cyril & Methodius R.C. Church, 125 Half Hollow Rd., Deer Park, NY 11729, on July 25, 2026, at 11:15 AM.

Joan Remson Etersque's vibrant spirit, her love of family and friends, and her steadfast faith leave a lasting imprint upon all those privileged to have shared in her journey. As her family and loved ones gather to honor her memory, they carry forward her legacy of kindness, joy, and unwavering love, forever treasuring the gift of her life.

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Friday, July 24, 2026

4:00 - 8:00 pm (Eastern time)

Deer Park - Mangano Family Funeral Home

1701 Deer Pk Ave, Deer Park, NY 11729

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Visitation

Saturday, July 25, 2026

11:15 am - 12:15 pm (Eastern time)

Saints Cyril & Methodius R.C. Church

125 Half Hollow Rd., Deer Park, NY 11729

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