Things a Funeral Director Won't Ever Say to You

Mangano Family Funeral Homes • October 19, 2020

You need good information in order to make good decisions. That much is certain. So when you head over to a funeral home in Ridge, NY to speak to the funeral director, you’ll want to know that everything coming out of their mouth is accurate information that can help you plan effectively. With that said, you can be very certain that a no reputable funeral director will ever utter any of the following erroneous statements.

“You Can Only Hold a Funeral Service in a Church”

While many people choose to hold funeral services in a church or chapel, that’s not to say that they can’t theoretically hold it some place else. If you’d rather have the event held at another location, speak with the funeral director. You’ll definitely need to ensure that the venue you choose can accommodate the number of people you anticipate will be able to make it. It’s also important to keep in mind that COVID-19 restrictions mean that group sizes must be smaller than they otherwise could be. By working closely with the funeral director, you’ll be able to plan a fitting funeral service at a location you and your family deem to be the most appropriate.

“Christians Can’t Get Cremated”

Aside from a few groups under the Christendom umbrella that prohibit cremation – such as Greek Orthodox – most Christian groups accept either funerals or cremations. So if you’re a person of faith, chances are that your religious group will accept either. You can always ask the funeral director you consult with if you’re uncertain.

“There Really are No Benefits of Funeral Services”

If you’ve ever been to a funeral service, you’re aware that they offer many benefits. They offer the opportunity for you, your family, and people who knew the deceased to honor their memory. You can hold a funeral service in a place of worship, outdoors, or someplace else. A funeral service, while primarily for the deceased, is also beneficial to the living. It can provide a place where healing starts. It can encourage people to live their lives to the fullest.

“The Only Reason People Plan Cremations is the Cost Factor”

The low cost is one of the reasons people consider cremation, but it’s inaccurate to say that it’s the only reason. Some people arrange cremations for other reasons. For instance, some people appreciate the opportunity to memorialize the deceased after a cremation by, among other things, getting memorial jewelry that can be made with some of the ashes. Some people also like the option of scattering the ashes in an area that has emotional significance.

Whether you wish to plan or preplan final services, you can get the help you need from a funeral home in Ridge, NY. When you find the right service provider, you’ll be in good hands. They’ll help you plan a fitting body disposition that honors the deceased and encourages the living. Your best bet is to find a service provider that is accessible around the clock, that offers a variety of final services packages, and that provides excellent customer service.

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