What Can You Do with the Ashes After Cremation?

Mangano Family Funeral Homes • October 5, 2020

After your loved one has been cremated, what do you plan to do with their cremains? When planning cremation services in Deer Park, NY, you can consult with the funeral director about your options for the ashes following the final services. There are many possibilities to choose from. Read on to see of the things you can do with the ashes if your loved one will be cremated.

Scatter

One option is to scatter the ashes. You can scatter ashes on the ground, scatter them by throwing the ashes into the wind, and even scatter ashes on water. If you do intend to scatter the ashes in the air, you’ll want to ensure that the wind is blowing in the right direction. The last thing you’ll want is to cast the ashes into the window and have the ashes blow back on you or on anyone else. It’s said that the best way to cast ashes into the window is to do so at waist level or below that. Doing it this way will keep the cremation ashes from blowing back on anyone.

Urn

Another option is to keep the cremation ashes in an urn. You can buy an urn from the funeral home. There is a process you should follow to get the right urn, and the funeral director will assist you by asking the right questions. Being able to look at the funeral home’s selection of urns will help you make a decision. Whether you plan to keep the urn at home, bury it, or do something else with it will factor into what sort of urn you should purchase.

Bury

You can bury the ashes in an urn if you’d like. You can bury the ashes in an urn in your backyard or ask the funeral director for your other options.

Jewelry

You might want to consider cremation jewelry. This is a great option if you’d like something that can be passed down to younger members of the family. There are different types of cremation jewelry. For instance, you can get cremation jewelry that contains some of the cremation ashes in a compartment.

Painting

Did you know that it’s possible to combine ashes and paint, and to them create a painting? You can, therefore, paint a portrait of the deceased that can be a great way to memorialize them.

These are just some of the things you can do with cremation ashes after your loved one is cremated. If you wish to preplan your own cremation services, you can inform your loved ones about what you’d like for them to do with your ashes. It’s something worth thinking about.

Whether you wish to plan or preplan, you can get the help you want from a funeral home providing cremation services in Deer Park, NY. Cremations are becoming more and more common for a number of reasons. You can get all the help you need when you find a reputable service provider to work with. The funeral director and the rest of the staff will be there to assist.

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